I Will Try...

'Try what?', you may well ask.

First and foremost, I will try to explain where I've been. I haven't been around in a very long time. Yes, I know.. only a few months, really, but in the blogiverse that's, like, forever. I can't hope to get caught up on everyone's blog - in fact, I'm not even going to try - but you should all know that I missed you, yes - all of you, over the summer.

The summer didn't start out well. A major argument with another blogger effectively ended a friendship that I had valued. A bad joke that I didn't let slide, an even worse reaction to my apparent lack of humor, and I was done. The whole episode left such a bad taste in my mouth that I stayed away for an entire month. From all of it - emails, blogging, reading anyone's blog at all, in fact.

The end of the school year brought a HUGE change to my life and household. Those of you who actually know me have some inkling what I'm talking about; for those of you who don't, the gist is that I had two more people living in my home. The summer was fraught with stress and I was completely caught up in a schedule no longer my own. Time to sit and watch some TV? Not likely. Time to blog? You can hear the laughter, right?

I lost thirty pounds this past summer... mostly because I was too stressed out to eat. Not my preferred method, but I can't deny that I'm glad the weight is gone...

The start of school again brought another change... but not without another healthy dose of drama and stress. The end result was that I was returned to my former way of life, and our household was back to two residents. The weeks since then have been filled with setting things back in order, and reclaiming my (as I call it) shallow and selfish existence. I also managed to reclaim five pounds, but for once I was not worried about gaining weight - I needed it!

That's all I can (or will) say on that topic. To reveal more would reveal entirely too much.

I will try, also, to be here more. I make no guarantees. I won't be one of those bloggers who promises to start writing every day again, and then disappears forever. However, there are several new developments in my life on which I need to update you - none very dramatic or earth-shattering or possibly even very interesting, but this is place where I may share this part of my life, so I will. I may, in fact, not be around much, but I will try to stick my head in now and then. Even if it is just to lurk quietly on your blogs.

Because, my blog friends, I have missed you. So very much.

9 comments:

France said...

Glad to see you are still sticking your head in now and then!

Welcome back. I've missed you! :)

GoodWill said...

Soooooo glad to see you Ms Scarlett. Sorry to hear of the drama and struggles, but delightful to see your name pop up again.

I hope things continue to look up for you! (And completely selfishly, I hope we see more posts from you, though completely understand if you don't get around to it!).

Jack and Jill said...

We disappeared for more than a year! Fortunately, we found getting back into the groove, if you will, to be pretty easy. We hope you find time to blog regularly, but if you don't, we will keep an eye on our follow list for a post from you every once in awhile.

-Jill

Osbasso said...

Lost 30 pounds, and you didn't even post a picture to show us??? You really ARE out of practice! ;-)

Glad to see you back, and hope you're able to get back into the swing of things! We've missed you, too!

Ryan Beaumont said...

Glad your back but make sure that your having fun. We're out here to enjoy ourselves, if it's work don't do it. But hopefully you can find blogging fun again.

Hubman said...

I've missed you too, thanks for the update, I hope we get to hear from you again!

Anonymous said...

Totally understand. I took my blog offline for a while just to sort some things out. Glad to hear you're still around. I'll be here when I can as well...

Topaz said...

I knew you weren't really gone, but glad to hear from you and see something on your blog.
The changes of summer break do take their toll, but 30 lbs is a serious toll - glad you're getting back to a healthier weight :-)

Anonymous said...

YOU'RE BACK!! Woohoooooo. Geez, I thought I wasn't going to get to read anything more from you. And to think, you've been back for weeks and weeks and I didn't even know it. I'm ashamed of myself for not checking more often. Welcome back sweetheart.